Old Friends - New Bedmates?

Well here it is Thursday and I haven't posted since last week. Ooy! Just too much going on and too many other "real life" things that need to be taken care of.

Two nights ago I received an email from a friend. A male friend. Jason I have literally known my whole life, we grew up a block apart and went to the same school from Kindergarten on. Several months ago we ended up finding each other on MySpace. At that time he was going to be in my area to visit another former classmate whom he is still good friends with. Nothing sounded more fun than meeting up with these two for drinks and a walk down memory lane. Which I did and it was a great time. Jason at the time had flirted a bit and I flirted back (before Jeff and I had decided we would get back together). At the time Jeff and I were not even speaking and although still in love with him was facing knowing I needed to move on. So Jason and I called and talked etc. We talked about relationships, kids, etc. You know the stuff people talk about when they are exploring dating someone.

Well a few weeks after Jason and I started talking just one day nothing from him. No return phone call, no email, nothing. I didn't chase the man as honestly I wasn't that interested. However, I did question why the drop in communication (I easily found out he began to date someone) which was and is COMPLETELY fine with me. I didn't want to marry the man. Within a few days of that Jeff had emailed me and look here we are.

Now that you know the history.........two nights ago I get an email from Jason. "Hi Sexy" "How are you?" "I had a sex dream about you last night....and you were awesome". That was it, that was the email. WTF? I laugh at it and email back with "I'm fine. How are you? Interesting dream". Which sparked a series of emails from him. He was going to be in my area wanted to know about having drinks, etc. etc. I politely turn him down for drinks. It didn't feel right.

It isn't like Jeff would care, in fact he would be okay with it. It was me. I knew Jason wanted more than drinks. He wanted a "booty call" and that isn't me. He was/is still dating the girl (I call her girl because she is 21 lol). In one email he said he thought he dreamed of me because he isn't satisfied easily and that someone his age could please him more. Again...WTF? Teach her how to please you then.

I guess in the end I am just sad that I like Jason as a good friend and I would have loved to gone out and had drinks with him. But sadly I guess that proves that men and women can not be just friends.